Personal Finance Posts

Bankruptcy During a Divorce: What's Actually at Risk and What Isn't  Quick answer: In most cases, your separate assets are protected if your spouse files bankruptcy. Bankruptcy discharges the filer's own debts. It doesn't automatically reach …

A listener in her late 20s wrote in this week feeling like she was doing everything right and still drowning, which is exactly the kind of letter that prompted today's episode of Financially Confident Christian on why a good job alone won't fix th…

She Lost Everything by 46. Here's Why Her Retirement Plan Still Works  A woman wrote in this week asking if it's too late to start saving for retirement at 46, and by the time you finish her letter, you'll wonder how she's still standing, let…

You make $900 a month. You're penny budgeting to make it work. Every dollar is accounted for: rent, food, transportation, unexpected bills. You were paying $18 per Uber three times a week, which adds up to about $216 a month. Then a coworker not…

You've been paying your car loan faithfully for five years. You've made every payment on time. You calculated once that you've paid about $14,000 in payments. But when you checked your balance, it's only gone down by $3,000. You feel like you're d…

You've been paying the house expenses. You've been paying the bills. You've been making the car payments. You've been handling the insurance. He earns $4,000 a month and contributes almost nothing. He's sitting on $60,000 in debt. Now you're ask…

You're weeks away from being completely debt-free except for your mortgage. You've spent over a decade digging out. Now you want to set up automatic transfers to savings. But every time you check your checking account and see the balance drop, you…

You've got a 23-year-old daughter who's autistic. You're in your fifties. And the question that wakes you up at 3 a.m. is simple and devastating: how do I save for a disabled child's future when I'm gone? Not if, but when. You're trying to figure …

You got the degree. You did what they told you. The door closed anyway. Maybe it happened fast, six months from graduation to rejection. Or maybe it happened slowly, years of lateral moves and dead ends, watching the ladder go nowhere. But either …

You did everything right. You got the degree, walked across the stage, and now you're drowning in student loan debt while the job market doesn't seem to care. So the question becomes real: is a college degree worth the cost anymore? I know this st…

Getting Out of Survival Mode and Actually Staying Out When you're in survival mode financially, every day feels like you're running on fumes. A teacher laid off mid-career, picking up tutoring gigs that barely cover gas money. Your partner cover…

You just got married. Your job is ending in August. A new one starts then too, but your paycheck won't arrive until September. Meanwhile, you're working a summer hourly gig. Your husband has two jobs. And you're staring at a W-4 form that was cl…

Should You Pay Off a Loan You Don't Need? A Practical Decision-Making Guide Should you pay off a loan you don't need? That's the practical decision-making guide you need right now. You took out a $5,000 loan for a used car. Then you found a newer v…

Am I Filing My 1099s Correctly? A Guide for Business Owners and Contractors  If you hire contractors or work as one yourself, you need to understand W-9s and 1099s. You collected the W-9s, you filed the 1099s, and now you're wondering if you …

Managing Financial Anxiety: When the Numbers Are Fine, but Your Stomach Isn'tYou checked your bank balance three times before breakfast. Not because the number changed. Because checking feels like doing something. The balance is fine. You have savi…

How to Prepare Financially for Marriage and ChildrenA listener called in recently with a concrete concern: he and his fiancée had saved substantial amounts across multiple accounts, they'd never been in debt, and they were planning to have children.…

Financial Recovery After Trauma and Job Loss: A Path Forward When Everything Feels Broken  When Crisis Hits All at Once  You were shot. You were hospitalized. Your employer fired you while you were still recovering. Your home was …

Have you ever been in a conversation where others make everyday life sound easy, while you're mentally calculating costs? When People Don't Understand Your Financial Reality. They talk about concerts and hobbies and weekend plans while you're addi…

Have you looked at a grocery receipt lately and felt genuinely shocked? Not because you splurged on anything fancy, just the regular stuff—milk, eggs, gas—and yet the total stings. You're nodding because you've lived it. This isn't in your head. You…

You notice things other people don't. When your parent is changing, and nobody else seems to notice. Your mom seems fine in conversation. She laughs. She answers questions. People at church have no idea anything is wrong. But you see something els…

You're finally making good money. Your bank account isn't living paycheck to paycheck anymore. The financial pressure that used to keep you awake at night is gone. And yet. You still eat like you don't have enough. You still hesitate before buying a…

You just graduated. You have $1,100 in the bank. And suddenly you're wondering: What do I do with this? That's a good question. It means you're already thinking like someone who cares about their future, which puts you ahead of a lot of people your …

Here's a question I get a lot from listeners in their 30s and 40s: Should I max out pre-tax contributions right now while I'm making good money, or should I split it between pre-tax and Roth? The answer depends on something that sounds simple, but m…

I see this all the time in my conversations with listeners. Someone drives off the lot, and within weeks, the regret hits. The monthly payment sits there like a bill you can't unsee, a reminder of a decision made in excitement that no longer makes s…